Yay! I'm so excited I'm off tomorrow!! I'm going to be able to get so much done for Gage's surprise birthday on Saturday!
Unfortunately, Coyote Ranch Resort was full this weekend....that's what I get for putting it off until the last minute. But I did manage to get two hotel rooms, right next to each other for Saturday night!
Gage and his friends in one room....and me in the other. Ahhhhh, peace and quite for a whole night...just me! Lovely. I'll probably sleep the whole time! haha.
So, I've been writing about how worried I've been about Gage's dad. It's been over a year since he has seen Gage, almost as long since he's even spoken to him. I found out a few days ago that he is, once again, in jail. He's being held for theft, violation of probation, and child support. Geez, he only owes me about $27,310.00. Ridiculous.
As disgusted as I am that he's in jail, again, I have to admit I was so happy to hear that he's alive. I didn't know if he was lying dead in a ditch somewhere. No one in his family has heard from him since this summer, when his dad passed away.
So, of course, the worst is going through my mind. And of course, I'm glad to hear he's still alive.
Rumor has it, that he may be going to prison this time. I wrote him, telling him how sad I am for him, where he is in life right now. But that I have hope. There have been many people in my family that were addicted to drugs. They came through, so I know there's a chance. Maybe prison is what he needs to get clean. Maybe this is finally rock bottom?
He's on my prayer list, has been for many years, and I'll continue to pray for him, hoping that one day, he will get back to being the dad he once was.
As much hope as I have for him, I'm still weary about giving him our address. I rented a post office box this weekend. I told him that if he wants to write Gage, he can. But I haven't told Gage yet about him being in jail.
His birthday/surprise party/license....so many exciting things coming up for him, I don't want to put a damper on that!
So, I figure by the time his dad gets my letter...and decides to write Gage....if he does, it will be after Gage's birthday.
I've been wanting to get a po box for a while now. Living out in the country, there's a lot of mail I feel uncomfortable about being sent to my house.
Also, I want to get back into Postcrossing for me and Zac. I didn't really like having my home address out there.
So I suppose this was the push I needed to get that ball rollin'.
Zac and I are all about postcards and pen pals, so my mailing address is posted on the side, if anyone wants to write us! :)
I hope you all are having a fabulous week!!! I'm super excited about our upcoming weekend!!
peace out
Wednesday, February 22, 2012
Tuesday, February 21, 2012
Update.
Tomorrow is already Wednesday!! I still have so much to do for Gage's surprise party on Saturday! I'm looking into getting a couple cabins at the Coyote Ranch Resort. One for Gage and a few of his friends....for after the party and one, hopefully next to it for me! :)
Work has been pretty slow. One of the doctors are on vacation, one is on call, one is just taking a few days off. So, today, I didn't have to be at work until 8. It was so weird getting there so late!!
I'm so used to getting up at 4:15, I still got up and just went to work at my part time job. I was pretty behind there, since I had such a rough week last week. I only worked about 4 hours last week. I'm super behind!!
Thursday we're all taking the day off, because we have NO patients scheduled! That will be perfect, because I can get everything done, that needs to be done, for the party!
I still can't believe that next Monday, my son will be 16 years old and driving.
Can you say,"Panic, Anxiety, Totally Freaking Out!?!?!?!"
ugh.
Sunday we had lunch at my mom's for my birthday. It was delicious....of course.
I hate to admit that it's been a while since I've been to church. But I went Sunday...late, there was only about 20 minutes left. When I sat down, I had this calmness in my heart. It was so peaceful, just sitting there listening to the Lord's word.
I thought.....I need to start coming again. This is what I need. This is what I'm missing.
The reason I went Sunday is because my sweet niece, Lucia, got baptized!
I was sitting at the back of the church, so this isn't a great picture, but I zoomed as far as my phone would let me.
Not that it really matters.....you can only see the tip top of her head. haha. She's so little.
I, of course, in my delicate state lately, cried.
It was a beautiful sight.
If there ever was a little girl who should get baptized, at such a young age, it would be sweet Lu. She has a heart for Jesus. The sweetest, most caring, loving, faithful girl you'd ever meet!
<3
Work has been pretty slow. One of the doctors are on vacation, one is on call, one is just taking a few days off. So, today, I didn't have to be at work until 8. It was so weird getting there so late!!
I'm so used to getting up at 4:15, I still got up and just went to work at my part time job. I was pretty behind there, since I had such a rough week last week. I only worked about 4 hours last week. I'm super behind!!
Thursday we're all taking the day off, because we have NO patients scheduled! That will be perfect, because I can get everything done, that needs to be done, for the party!
I still can't believe that next Monday, my son will be 16 years old and driving.
Can you say,"Panic, Anxiety, Totally Freaking Out!?!?!?!"
ugh.
Sunday we had lunch at my mom's for my birthday. It was delicious....of course.
I hate to admit that it's been a while since I've been to church. But I went Sunday...late, there was only about 20 minutes left. When I sat down, I had this calmness in my heart. It was so peaceful, just sitting there listening to the Lord's word.
I thought.....I need to start coming again. This is what I need. This is what I'm missing.
The reason I went Sunday is because my sweet niece, Lucia, got baptized!
I was sitting at the back of the church, so this isn't a great picture, but I zoomed as far as my phone would let me.
Not that it really matters.....you can only see the tip top of her head. haha. She's so little.
I, of course, in my delicate state lately, cried.
It was a beautiful sight.
If there ever was a little girl who should get baptized, at such a young age, it would be sweet Lu. She has a heart for Jesus. The sweetest, most caring, loving, faithful girl you'd ever meet!
<3
Friday, February 17, 2012
Chop off the hair, chop chop off the hair!
I don't know if it's a woman thing.....or maybe just a thing women in my family do.....OR maybe just a me & Leah thing....
You may be able to relate, but....when things are going really shitty, I crave a change.
A major change. A change that I can control. Is it a control thing? Maybe I feel like everything is out of my hands, every thing's out of control, so I have to find something I can control.
When I'm feeling like this...my big change is usually my hair.
Why?
Because it's not permanent. You can cut your hair....it'll grow back. You can color your hair...then color it back.
So, since I've had no control over my life the past few months....I decided to change my hair.
Drastically.
I know I've probably been venting a little too much about my ADHD child drama, but....man, it's like he's gone to a complete different level.
I'm on the edge.
I'm on the verge.
I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
I can be at work and just THINK about something he has done the day before, and I start shaking.
I've cried everyday for the past week.
I feel so helpless. So.....out of control.
Unfortunately, I believe his dad and I have decided it would best for him to move in with him when this school year is over.
I know it will be best for all of us.
I can get a break. Gage can get a break. And Zac can have the father/male influence in his life that he so desperately needs right now.
I cry thinking about it. But I have to remind myself that Russ is his parent too. I'm not the only parent he has.
I feel like a failure. Everyone says I shouldn't....but you know....that's easier said than done.
I'm praying that this change will be wonderful for us all.
So, my total meltdown, spur of the moment thing......
I chopped off all my hair and colored it.
Double whammy.
I freaked immediately after it was done.
I just kept shaking my head no.
But I think I will start to love it.
I've always wanted a short pixie cut/Mia Farrow/Michelle Williams cut.
And if I don't learn to love it.....well, it's just hair.
And it will grow back! :)
P.S.
I need a tan. :)
You may be able to relate, but....when things are going really shitty, I crave a change.
A major change. A change that I can control. Is it a control thing? Maybe I feel like everything is out of my hands, every thing's out of control, so I have to find something I can control.
When I'm feeling like this...my big change is usually my hair.
Why?
Because it's not permanent. You can cut your hair....it'll grow back. You can color your hair...then color it back.
So, since I've had no control over my life the past few months....I decided to change my hair.
Drastically.
I know I've probably been venting a little too much about my ADHD child drama, but....man, it's like he's gone to a complete different level.
I'm on the edge.
I'm on the verge.
I'm on the verge of a nervous breakdown.
I can be at work and just THINK about something he has done the day before, and I start shaking.
I've cried everyday for the past week.
I feel so helpless. So.....out of control.
Unfortunately, I believe his dad and I have decided it would best for him to move in with him when this school year is over.
I know it will be best for all of us.
I can get a break. Gage can get a break. And Zac can have the father/male influence in his life that he so desperately needs right now.
I cry thinking about it. But I have to remind myself that Russ is his parent too. I'm not the only parent he has.
I feel like a failure. Everyone says I shouldn't....but you know....that's easier said than done.
I'm praying that this change will be wonderful for us all.
So, my total meltdown, spur of the moment thing......
I chopped off all my hair and colored it.
Double whammy.
I freaked immediately after it was done.
I just kept shaking my head no.
But I think I will start to love it.
I've always wanted a short pixie cut/Mia Farrow/Michelle Williams cut.
And if I don't learn to love it.....well, it's just hair.
And it will grow back! :)
P.S.
I need a tan. :)
Thursday, February 9, 2012
Fabulous February
Sunday I went to work (my 2nd job). I clocked in about 6:25 a.m. As I was filing in the file room (downtown, all alone, no one in the building), 20 minutes later (6:45 a.m.) the alarm started going off. I waited a minute, thinking it would stop. I thought the office manager had come in, she sometimes does on the weekends, too.
It didn't stop.
With a few files still in my hand, pressed tightly against my chest, I slowly walked around the corner to see if anyone was there.
I went to the alarm and put the code in, hoping it would stop. It kept going. I checked all the doors. They were locked. As far as I could tell, no one else was there.
I figured the alarm company would call the office manager and she would turn it off. I went into her office and heard a door shut, where I was filing before. I peeked around the corner and the door was shut.
I went back to her office, freaking out now. I was debating on whether or not I should call someone. But I figured someone would show up.
15 minutes later, the alarm was still going off. I was still alone. I was still freaking out.
I searched the building, looking for someone's phone number. Finally at 7:15 I found one. One of the girls came up (another 20 minutes later) and we finally figured out how to reset the alarm.
She left and I went back to filing. About 30 minutes later, the alarm went off again. I reset it. Repeat times 5. Finally about 10:45 the office manager and a police officer show up.
Yes. Four hours later.
You know.....they could've found me death, bloody, beaten on the floor.
Makes a person feel safe, right?
(oh yeah, the door shutting, file room doors automatically shut when the alarm goes off. Wish I had known that!! haha.)
Ridiculous.
We still don't know what kept setting it off. All I know is that I will no longer be going in when it's still dark out.
Speaking of dark out....Tuesday night I went to mail out Gage's invitations. It was a beautiful night out!
Look at this awesome full moon!
Gorgeous.
Speaking of gorgeous (bahahahaha).....my aunt sent me a text asking me how my eyeliner was looking. Since it had time to heal and whatnot. I sent her a text back and said:
One thing I love, is when people show their appreciation. The other day a patient brought these in for me, the doctor, and a couple of nurses for being so wonderful!
Awww, shucks. What can I say....?
I'm not much of a sweets eater, so I gave mine away...but it's still the thought that counts!
I have so much to look forward to this month!
Tomorrow is Friday! Holla!!!!
We're getting Branding Iron brought to us at work (YUM)! Because we had a perfect score for the year on our surveys.
Like I said.....we're pretty awesome.
Saturday a girl at my work is throwing a "Passion Party"!! Fun, fun!!!
Thursday is my birthday. Sunday is my birthday lunch at my mom's.
Hello, pork chops, fried potatoes, green bean, and Red Velvet Cake.
Or as Zac would say,"Red Violet Cake".
The weekend after is Gage's surprise party.
I've been buying things here and there for the big day!
I'm just praying his little friends don't spill the beans!!!
You know how boys are. Especially teenage boys! :)
Anyways, that's what's been happenin' with me! :)
peace out.
It didn't stop.
With a few files still in my hand, pressed tightly against my chest, I slowly walked around the corner to see if anyone was there.
I went to the alarm and put the code in, hoping it would stop. It kept going. I checked all the doors. They were locked. As far as I could tell, no one else was there.
I figured the alarm company would call the office manager and she would turn it off. I went into her office and heard a door shut, where I was filing before. I peeked around the corner and the door was shut.
I went back to her office, freaking out now. I was debating on whether or not I should call someone. But I figured someone would show up.
15 minutes later, the alarm was still going off. I was still alone. I was still freaking out.
I searched the building, looking for someone's phone number. Finally at 7:15 I found one. One of the girls came up (another 20 minutes later) and we finally figured out how to reset the alarm.
She left and I went back to filing. About 30 minutes later, the alarm went off again. I reset it. Repeat times 5. Finally about 10:45 the office manager and a police officer show up.
Yes. Four hours later.
You know.....they could've found me death, bloody, beaten on the floor.
Makes a person feel safe, right?
(oh yeah, the door shutting, file room doors automatically shut when the alarm goes off. Wish I had known that!! haha.)
Ridiculous.
We still don't know what kept setting it off. All I know is that I will no longer be going in when it's still dark out.
Speaking of dark out....Tuesday night I went to mail out Gage's invitations. It was a beautiful night out!
Look at this awesome full moon!
Gorgeous.
Speaking of gorgeous (bahahahaha).....my aunt sent me a text asking me how my eyeliner was looking. Since it had time to heal and whatnot. I sent her a text back and said:
Like this:
haha. Ya gotta love Hatchet Face.
She responded,"She eff'd a bitch up!!"
Seriously though...it looks awesome, if I do say so myself!! I wore mascara for the first time this week and it looks really good!
It's nice to wake up, wash your face, and go....and already look really awake!!
She responded,"She eff'd a bitch up!!"
Seriously though...it looks awesome, if I do say so myself!! I wore mascara for the first time this week and it looks really good!
It's nice to wake up, wash your face, and go....and already look really awake!!
I don't know if I mentioned this on my blog, I know I did on Facebook. A few weeks ago, Gage came home with a gift he made....just for Zac.
Yes, this is what happens when you let your son watch "Dazed and Confused".
He made a paddle in shop. haha.
I thought it was hilarious....Zac, not so much!!
I'd be lying if I said Zac hasn't been needing it. And I be lying if I said I haven't swatted his little butt with it once or twice!
Yes, this is what happens when you let your son watch "Dazed and Confused".
He made a paddle in shop. haha.
I thought it was hilarious....Zac, not so much!!
I'd be lying if I said Zac hasn't been needing it. And I be lying if I said I haven't swatted his little butt with it once or twice!
One thing I love, is when people show their appreciation. The other day a patient brought these in for me, the doctor, and a couple of nurses for being so wonderful!
Awww, shucks. What can I say....?
I'm not much of a sweets eater, so I gave mine away...but it's still the thought that counts!
I have so much to look forward to this month!
Tomorrow is Friday! Holla!!!!
We're getting Branding Iron brought to us at work (YUM)! Because we had a perfect score for the year on our surveys.
Like I said.....we're pretty awesome.
Saturday a girl at my work is throwing a "Passion Party"!! Fun, fun!!!
Thursday is my birthday. Sunday is my birthday lunch at my mom's.
Hello, pork chops, fried potatoes, green bean, and Red Velvet Cake.
Or as Zac would say,"Red Violet Cake".
The weekend after is Gage's surprise party.
I've been buying things here and there for the big day!
I'm just praying his little friends don't spill the beans!!!
You know how boys are. Especially teenage boys! :)
Anyways, that's what's been happenin' with me! :)
peace out.
Saturday, February 4, 2012
sixteen years old....WHAT?!?!?
Happy Saturday! Man, I love weekends!
I'm spending my Saturday trying to arrange Gage's 16th birthday SURPRISE party!
It's not an easy thing. I have the date, I have the location, and his friends are helping me with the invite list. With the people he's friends with at school, but I don't really know well.
I'm hoping a lot of our family will be able to be there to celebrate this huge milestone.
So far, two family member and one of Gage's best friends are unable to make it the weekend that I'm having it. :(
I'm a little disappointed, but I guess it's to be expected.
When I first thought of this idea, I was so super excited. But now that I'm planning it.....I have no idea what I'm doing.
What in the world do I set up for 16 year old boys???
I think I'm going to have a karaoke machine, a couple games tables set up, hot dogs, cake, ummmm......what else?
Any ideas out there? I'm struggling here. I've never been a teenage boy, so I have no idea.
All I know, is this is a big day, and I want it to be perfect. But I'm feeling a little on the lame side right now.
So, yeah.....any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!! :)
I'm spending my Saturday trying to arrange Gage's 16th birthday SURPRISE party!
It's not an easy thing. I have the date, I have the location, and his friends are helping me with the invite list. With the people he's friends with at school, but I don't really know well.
I'm hoping a lot of our family will be able to be there to celebrate this huge milestone.
So far, two family member and one of Gage's best friends are unable to make it the weekend that I'm having it. :(
I'm a little disappointed, but I guess it's to be expected.
When I first thought of this idea, I was so super excited. But now that I'm planning it.....I have no idea what I'm doing.
What in the world do I set up for 16 year old boys???
I think I'm going to have a karaoke machine, a couple games tables set up, hot dogs, cake, ummmm......what else?
Any ideas out there? I'm struggling here. I've never been a teenage boy, so I have no idea.
All I know, is this is a big day, and I want it to be perfect. But I'm feeling a little on the lame side right now.
So, yeah.....any suggestions would be greatly appreciated!! :)
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