Monday, February 28, 2011
Time.....? Where did you go??
omg.
First of all, how in the world do I have a 15 year old?
It's amazing how fast time flies, especially once you have kids. :(
Next year my boy will already be driving!!
How is that possible?
I think back to when I was 15 and I'm scared to death for him to be this age! This is about the age that I kinda went a little crazy!!
But he's a good boy.
I think.
It will be alright.
I'm sure....
Anyways, Gage's birthday party this weekend was so much fun! I booked an awesome two bedroom, two bath, kitchen, and living room suite....here in town.
The suite was big, but our group was bigger. Me, Leah, Marianne, Adrien, Gage, Travis, Derek, Andrew, Zoe, Ariel, Lucia, Noa, Jack for a little while. He mostly stayed home with his dad, though.
Friday, I left work early to go buy groceries and decorations. I bought a huge Justin Bieber V.I.P. Party door cover. hahahaha. Purple plates, Justin Bieber napkins, lots of balloons, Happy Birthday signs. We always tease Gage about loooooving JB.
Of course, he's like every teen boy and thinks he gay. So, that was pretty funny.
I thought.
Lucia loved it, of course. haha.
So, Friday nights adventures were fun.
We first went looking for Witches Gate, but no one could really remember where exactly it was. So then we went to the old abandoned Insane Asylum. It was super scary!! The cops were called on us. But the (good looking) cop was awesome and talked to us for about 10 minutes. He even told us some stories he had heard about the place. He said we could stay as long as wanted. He just wanted to make sure we weren't gang bangers or drug dealers. haha. We wanted to have him take a picture with Gage, so he'd have a good story about how the cops were called on him on his 15th birthday. haha. But the cop said they're not allowed to do that anymore. Apparently cops used to take pictures with people on scavenger hunts, but they were altered and put on the internet. haha. So, yeah...they're not allowed to do that anymore!
Then we went to an old scary cemetary at the end of a road (out towards where I live..not cool). It was pitch black, but we kept seeing a little light flash in the distance. We scared ourselves silly and ran from the cemetary. I couldn't find Gage and started freaking out, asking everyone,"Where's Gage? Where's Gage?"
Yeah, he and Travis had ran off to run around the cemetary. ugh. They thought that was hilarious.
So not funny.
Then we picked up some Taco Bueno (yum!) and headed to "Pinky's Cave". Which pretty much sucked.
But the rest of the night was fun. :)
Saturday nights adventure was even more fun than the night before. We went to another cemetary. A huge cemetary that has like 3 levels. It wasn't as scary as the small cemetary we went to the night before, though.
Then we went to Shashony Park (I think that's how you spell it?).
This is a big camp site out by Lake Arrowhead. There are tons of trails and it's super dark. We drove around, got out and walked around a few times. The boys would get out and walk beside the car, or on top of the car, or on the bumper, or just sitting in the back with the back open, hanging their legs out.
It was a lot fun.
I think we had more fun staying in town than when we went to the cabins. The boys were able to go to the mall and do other stuff around town during the day.
I loved being able to lay in bed during the day, while they were out, just reading or watching movies.
:)
Happy Birthday to my boy!!
Friday, February 25, 2011
Friday I'm in love! :)
Today is his girlfriend's birthday, Sunday is Gage's. Yesterday I had to take him to the mall to buy his girlfriend a birthday present. It's funny; he's asking me what to get her and she's texting me asking what to get him. I'm like...come on, now!! Use your imaginations!!
Wednesday, February 23, 2011
Wee Bit Time! :)
Tuesday, February 22, 2011
I smell a rat.....

Not only do I smell a rat....but a dead rat! Yes, a dead rat in our attic at work.
First we just smelled the rats bodily function smells seeping through the ceiling. We had our exterminator put some rat poison in the attic. Two weeks later.....we smell a dead rat.
And it STINKS!!!
I'm pretty sure I've always heard, where there's one, there's a nest.
I know this to be true with mice....I'm guessing it's the same with rats??
All I know, is I don't like being in a building by myself at 6:00 in morning, knowing there could possibly be more rats around.
Ok, so apparently I've been working with them for a while, but I didn't know at the time.
I know now. And I don't like it. I don't like it one bit!
Just wondering....have you ever read Stephen King's Night Shift? It's a collection of short stories and one is called Graveyard Shift. Yeah, it's about rats. And it's pretty gross.
Anyways, someone is supposed to come clean our attic. Hopefully there will be only one dead rat in the entire attic, or if there are more....hopefully they're alllll dead! No live ones! At all.
I can't handle that.
Ew.
Saturday, February 19, 2011
Fun filled Saturday!!
Leah and I decided to teach our kids how to spend a fun filled Saturday. We went "slummin"
First we went to the flea market! It was sooo beautiful outside, we had to take advantage.
I bought a cute purse. Well, I think it's cute. Gage said it was ugly. What does he know? He's a boy.
After spending THREE hours at the flea market, we were HUNGRY! So, we decided to continue the "white trash" themed day and take all six kids to Bar L.
If you don't live here in WF, you're missing out on some AWESOME food!! OMG!
And yes, it is a bar. BUT it is also family friendly. Especially at lunch time. I mean, I wouldn't take my kids at night or anything.
It was a fun day! Now, we're all watching Will Smith's cutie pie son in the new Karate Kid.
Tomorrow is my birthday lunch at my mom's with the fam! :)
Friday, February 18, 2011
Friday I'm in LOVE

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This Friday, I am in love with:
1. Survivor!
I'm super excited about the new season!! I was never a watcher of Survivor, but my mom and sister got me hooked! This will be my 3rd year watching.

2. My Beach Boy!!
Last night was Zac's school play. He was a beach boy. :) He played the guitar and had a speaking line. It was too cute. :)
I was so proud.
3. My birthday.
Why? Because every year my mom makes me a birthday lunch of my choice and a cake of my choice.
Every year I choose pork chops, fried potatoes, and green beans.
The cake varies. This year: my mom's famous, made from scratch, Red Velvet Cake!
YUM!
TRUE STORY:
I received a lot of birthday wishes on my Facebook. One was from my aunt Teeter.
Teeter: On the day you were born, your mom was eating pork chops and fried potatoes with me and Jack. Her tummy started hurting and 1 1/2 hours later...you were born. How fast was that? Happy Birthday!!
Me: Thank you, Teeter! haha. No wonder porks chops and fried potatoes are always what I ask my mom to make me for my birthday lunch! :)
Teeter: You are kidding me?? That's too good to be true!
Funny, right? How did I not ever know this story??
Fill in the Blank (TGI) FRIDAY!!
1. I am: a mom, a hard worker, completely honest, very loyal, a worrier, introverted, sometimes insecure, lover of horror movies :) and good books!
2. The bravest thing I've ever done was: raise two boys on my own!!
3. I feel prettiest when: my boys tell me I'm pretty. haha.
4. Something that keeps me awake at night is: nothing lately. I'm out like a light the minute my head hits the pillow!
5. My favorite meal in the entire world is: my mom's pork chops, fried potates, and green beans!
6. The way to my heart is: honesty, loyalty, being faithful, giving me my space. haha .
7. I would like to: win the lottery. Seriously. Or just find a new job where I can get my hours! ugh.
Wednesday, February 16, 2011
Wee Bit Wednesday Time!!
Tuesday, February 15, 2011
In the Mouth of Madness
I started thinking,"Oh my gosh. I'm in a Stephen King book! The same thing is going to keep happening over and over. The road is never going to end!" Yes, I read too many Stephen King books. But that's ok. Because while it's scary, it's oh so fun! :)
I finally got to the highway. There are NO lights along the highway. All I see are my headlights and the lines on the road.
This is where I really get scared, because I start thinking about the movie "In the Mouth of Madness". Have you ever seen this movie??
It's been years since I've seen it. There is one part that I remember very well. A guy driving down a dark road and he see what he thinks is a boy riding a bike down the middle of the road.
Scary.
Oh my gosh!!! This movie scared me to death!! I haven't watched it since. But I may have to watch it again. I've forgotten what it's all about.
Leah KNOWS this part of the movie scares me. So, I'm focusing on driving in the fog at 5:20 in the morning, just me on the road...thinking about this scary man face, hoping I don't see anything...and my phone dings. I got a text message and I jumped so high, my heart was racing.
It was Leah. I texted her back and told her that I'm trying to pay attention; the fog is scary and she scared the crap out of me!
So, I drop off Gage at her house (he rides the bus from her house every morning) and I head to work. Then I get another text message from her.
It says:
Hope you don't see a little boy with long white hair and an old mans face riding a bike down the middle of the road by your work or in your parking lot.
UGH!!
She knows I open that freaking place! She knows it's just me for a while before anyone else shows up!!
She KNOWS this!!
I was scared. haha.
I finally got to work and briskly walked to the door, unlocked it, and went inside to turn the alarm off. I didn't run like I wanted to. Like I did when I went out that morning to start my car...I may have jumped out of the car and ran back into the house to shut and lock the door.
Anyways, I get to the time clock and realize I left my badge in the car.
Nuh-uh!!! No way! I'm not going back out there. haha. So, I left Brenda a note and told her I forgot my badge. :) When she got in, I told her the truth.
I'm a scaredy cat.
But man, it's fun to be scared! haha.
Jack's first soccer practice!
Look at him pose. He doesn't even know his mom is taking pictures! haha.
Monday, February 14, 2011
hilarious
When you first do it, it gives you goosebumps all over and you cringe away. It takes some getting used to.
Actually, Ms. Marianne....
Happy Valentines Day!!
Sunday, February 13, 2011
two good postsecrets this week.
Quick weekend....
I love crime shows. LOVE them.
My new favorite is "Who the [bleep] did I marry?"

It's so sad. But so funny at the same time. It's amazing what you will go through and what you will turn a blind eye to...when you're "in love".
While I was laying in Lucia's bed, watching the ID Channel (why do I pay rent for a house I don't stay in??), Jack came running in to show me his hair.
His sissy did it for him. Isn't it cute??
haha.
I'm going to go spend some time outside now. The weather is beautiful!! I love it!
I hope the winter is gone for good! :) (yeah right)
Saturday, February 12, 2011
Saturday Night.
Lucia had a good time with them.
She painted Gage and Melissa's nails and did their hair up in bows. :)
Gage painted Lucia and Jack's nails, too.
What movie did I see, you ask? Well, "Blue Valentine" of course.
Can I just say that Ryan Gosling and Michelle Williams were wonderful in this movie.
They played the parts perfect. My heart ached watching it.
I could really relate to Michelle's role and it was heartbreaking.
To be in a marriage that just...isn't. To get to that point where you just can't take it anymore. For him to touch you, makes you cringe. To feel like you have to "be with" him, because you're married and feel that it's your "duty".
To want so bad to make it work, because you know that's what they want...but you're just to the point where you can't. You just can't.
I've been there.
And Ryan's part. I saw him in his part, too.
The constant need for attention. The child-like behavior. The thinking that they're so funny, when really...they're just annoying.
Also the sadness of seeing them try so hard, but that trying so hard only pushes you further away.
It's just a perfect story.
I feel like men are more romantic than women. When we get married we marry, like, one girl, 'cause we're resistant the whole way until we meet one girl and we think I'd be an idiot if I didn't marry this girl she's so great. But it seems like girls get to a place where they just kinda pick the best option... 'Oh he's got a good job.' I mean they spend their whole life looking for Prince Charming and then they marry the guy who's got a good job and is gonna stick around.
Friday, February 11, 2011
Finally....
I will come armed with tons of tissue, because I KNOW I'm going to need it. I've been waiting for this movie to play here, but I thought I was going to have to wait for it to come out on DVD!
Yay!
I LOVE RYAN GOSLING!!!! In EVERYthing he does. I have not seen a movie of his that I don't love. He's brilliant.Know who else I love? This is a fairly new crush.
Sam Rockwell. I've always loved him in everything. He's awesome.
But I kinda have a crush on him now. :)
Have you seen "Conviction"? It was wonderful! Hilary Swank is another one that is awesome in everything.I just love movies.
AND BOOKS! I'm reading "Water for Elephants". It took me a bit to get into it, but now I can't put it down!!
I guess I just love escaping from reality. :)
Speaking of reality, Zac's appointment went well yesterday.
The doctor seems to think that medication for his anxiety would benefit him more than ADHD medication. He thinks that the anxiety is causing his inability to focus.
So, last night we started Lexapro. We're ready to see how this will work for him.
Hopefully it helps the anxiety and hopefully it will also help him with his little ticks (blinking, hand movements).
We shall see.
I'm so glad it's the weekend. I haven't been able to get much sleep, since the weather has been bad. Staying the night at my sister's to be closer to work...I stay up later. Watching movies, hanging with the kids. Ugh! I need my 8 hours!!!
Speaking of watching movies, we watched "Paranormal Activity 2". It wasn't as good as the first one, but I liked it. Zac, Lucia, and Jack were all line up on the couch with a blanket pulled up over their noses, watching with us. They were scared, but unable to tear their eyes away. :)
Good stuff.
Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Pretty sky
I tried to capture it....with my crap cell phone. haha.
And it was so freaking pretty.
:)
Your loss.
Oh...by the way...
Friday I have to go to court for the 5 hundred millionth time! UGH! What is the point?? Five years and $23,000 + of back child support....there is really no reason. Oh well, at least I can say I'm doing my part. blah.
The the week after next, I'm FINALLY taking Beauty to get her fixed. I can't handle puppies again!! I wanted to keep them all!! And I don't even like animals all that much :)
Soooo, I seem to have accomplished the quitting smoking. I have not had a cigarette since September...something. My new goal, give up Dr Pepper. If you know me, you know this is REALLY going to be a challenge. More so than cigarettes I think. I started smoking when I was 15. I started my addiction to Dr Pepper at age 11. All I drink all day, everyday is Dr Pepper. I'm on day 2 of no Dr Pepper. I had a major head ache yesterday, but today I'm doing ok. :) Hopefully I can do this! |
Tuesday, February 8, 2011
Woke up this morning....
Ok, not really. Unless P Diddy wakes up exhausted and dreading getting out of bed. I could NOT fall asleep last night! I was laying on the couch, watching Nancy Grace, possibly crying a little over the story of a cleaning guy finding a one hour old baby in a toilet after a circus in South Carolina. Ugh....I'm not even going into that right now. It disgusted me. I turned off the tv and read a little. Started to get tired, turned off the light....then tossed and turned for a good 2 hours.
I could NOT fall asleep!!
Have you ever had a song stuck in your head? Like, it's so stuck in your head, you can't sleep because you keep singing it over and over. Then you fall asleep...only to wake up (to go pee or get a drink) and start singing it again?!?!
I did that last night!
Pink Floyd..."Veeeraaa, Veeeraaa.....what has become of you?"
I don't think I've even heard this song in years. Why was it stuck in my head?
Weird.
Thursday, February 3, 2011
Snow no more. Please!!
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Wednesday, February 2, 2011
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

This weather needs to stop now. Go away, coldness.
The single digits today? High 25 tomorrow??

Zac has been with his dad since school let out Monday. I can't get him...the roads are too bad.
Leah ventured out yesterday in her 4 wheel drive to go to the grocery store. She took Gage to his friends house. I thought the weather would start to clear up today.
Will this ever end???
I'm go'n craaaazy!!!!!
And.....no cable. Yes, the cable is out. :( No crime shows for me today.
Maybe that's a good thing. I had some weird dreams last night!
Tuesday, February 1, 2011
Good ole Days
Abby and Leah in the left bottom corner.
Then Carrie, Jeff, and yep......the fatty in the Porky Pig shirt is porky me. haha.

Awwww, all of us cousins were all so close growing up. And we still are.
I love my family!! :)
Snow day.
But, to be on the safe side, I stayed at her house...a little closer to work.
I woke up this morning; took a shower, dried my hair, got dressed, then started out the door to get my car started.
Leah said,"Stephanie! You're not seriously getting out in this are you?"
I said,"Yeah. I have to! Patients are coming in. I have to."
She said,"Have you seen it out there?"
"No, but it doesn't matter. I HAVE to go in."
"But have you seen it out there?"
"No. But I HAVE to go in."
"Ok, just be careful. Don't wreck. Don't wreck."
I opened the door and ohh emm gee!! It was a winter wonderland! And it was still coming down.
Stupid me; I go outside in my scrubs and Converse, sinking into the snow. My pants getting soaking wet. Get to the car, step off the curb, and freaking sink down to my knee!
But I'm still attempting this!! I started the car. Blasted the heater/defrost and began tracking back inside.
But then, as I'm brushing my teeth and getting my mascara/eye liner on, my heart starts pounding.
Can I really make it to work? What if I get stuck in the snow like I did the Christmas before last, heading out to my mom's? I was on the side of the road for 2 hours!
Not only that, but I forgot my phone charger last night....I only have ONE bar on my phone!
Oh well. I HAVE to go to work. But man, I have a bad feeling about this!
I go out to the car, get in, turn on the windshield wipers...they won't budge. I scrape the window, my fingers are numb!! I come back inside to get some gloves from Leah and tell her I think I already have frost bite.
Hey, this is Texas. We're not really used to this kind of weather! :)
Ugh, I go back to the car back up to leave....and get stuck. Yes, I drove a whole foot and got stuck. Try as I might...I can't get out. I go forward, I go backward...STUCK!
All that work for nothing. I have to call in.
Damn, my paycheck is going to be mad at me!
So, here I am...cozy in Lucia's bed, with the blowdryer blowing on my (too close for comfort, frost bit) feet.
Just got a text from Brenda at work telling me that we're closed down for tomorrow...see ya Thursday.
Man, my paycheck is going to suck.
Oh well...what are you gonna do?
Wow, that was a long story. With really no great climax. Sorry about that! :)
So as I said in my last post, I brought "Scream" over to watch last night. Lucia said she wanted a scary movie.
I don't think "Scream" is really a scary movie...but I sure did the first time I saw it! So, I figured Lucia would like it! She and Jack both love scary movies.
But I guess I didn't realize how scary it could be for a 9 year old and a 3 year old.
Lucia and Jack "watching" Scream:

hahahahahaha.
They're outside playing in the snow. I guess I'll go take some pics of this crazy blizzard! ;)
Hope you all have a wonderful Tuesday!!




